Why BFFS BEST FRIENDS Forever Belongs Among Middle School Bullying Books

What happens when a new seventh grader becomes the school bus’s favorite joke before she even reaches class?

How can a girl defend herself when classmates turn her appearance and accent into entertainment? And what changes when one student decides friendship matters more than popularity?

A First Day Nobody Would Want to Repeat

Jennifer Alley arrives at Concord Middle School in North Carolina already wishing she looked different. Her family has recently moved from West Virginia after her father lost his mill job. She wears hand-me-downs.

On the bus, nobody offers her a seat. A girl calling herself Gretchen asks friendly-sounding questions, then mocks Jennifer’s accent for laughing students. Jennifer initially hopes she has made a friend.

The cruelty grows once Ryan Rydell and Seth Hudson notice her protruding teeth. Their nickname for her spreads through the bus and classroom. Jennifer hears them laughing.

In BFFS BEST FRIENDS Forever by Jennifer Early Calvert, bullying begins with recognizable moments: a joke at someone else’s expense, an audience unwilling to intervene, and the isolation that follows someone home.

The Audience Has a Part in the Bullying

Ryan and Seth enjoy their popularity, but their behavior gains force from classmates who laugh or join in. Megan’s teasing helps set the tone, while other girls make Jennifer feel unwelcome even in the school bathroom.

The bystanders carry different responsibilities. Some actively humiliate Jennifer. Others keep quiet because challenging the popular group carries a social cost. Silence seems safer when belonging feels essential.

That social pressure makes the novel relevant to discussions of Middle School Bullying Books. It asks students to consider what their laughter communicates, even without delivering the insult.

Yet Ryan is not presented as a cardboard villain. His athletic success hides pressure from his father, and his private life complicates the confidence he displays at school.

That background explains something about his behavior without excusing his cruelty. It also gives older readers a subject for conversation: how harm travels through families.

Abby’s Friendship Comes With a Risk

Abby Legna sees what happens to Jennifer and refuses to join the mockery. Checking on Jennifer in the bathroom, she offers kindness. She introduces herself and listens.

Later, Abby invites Jennifer to sit at her lunch table. Several friends object. They worry that being seen with an unpopular newcomer will damage their own standing. Abby must choose between their approval and the girl she wants to include.

The lunch scene becomes especially revealing when Jennifer speaks Spanish with Rosalie, a neighbor from Tower Circle. Her surprised classmates discover an ability they never bothered to ask about. Their assumptions unravel.

Abby also carries private grief following her father’s death. She has worries of her own. Their friendship develops through action.

Two Educators Offer Different Kinds of Help

Miss Wagner, Jennifer’s math teacher, recognizes that something is wrong. She challenges Ryan and Seth in class, then discreetly seeks Abby’s account without exposing her to retaliation. She finds ways to involve Jennifer.

Guidance counselor Miss Early takes a different route. Her memorable “Power and Puppet” exercise asks Jennifer to respond physically whenever a chosen word is spoken. Switching roles shows Jennifer how reactions can be controlled.

Miss Early gives Jennifer a few ways to handle the teasing. She suggests changing the subject, using humor, or responding in a way the bullies won’t expect. Still, Jennifer isn’t sure she can do it.

She admits how much their words hurt. And even with Miss Early’s advice, facing Ryan and Seth again won’t be easy. Knowing what to say is one thing. Finding the courage to say it is another.

What Poverty Reveals About the School’s Values

Jennifer’s teeth attract mockery, but her family’s circumstances also shape how classmates judge her. The Alleys live in a trailer, and some classmates echo their parents’ class prejudice.

A visit to Jennifer’s home unsettles Miss Wagner’s assumptions. She notices the family’s hospitality, Jean Alley’s garden, and the way Jennifer’s sister Hannah quietly gives a guest a proper bowl while using a coffee filter herself.

The detail quietly reveals generosity beneath modest circumstances. Miss Wagner learns from the family she helps.

Beyond the Hallway, Toward a Kinder Community

The student council election gives Jennifer a reason to speak before her peers and gives Abby an opportunity to make kindness a public commitment. Their partnership challenges the school’s culture.

Jennifer loves to sing, and she isn’t afraid to admit it. When Miss Wagner asks what she enjoys, Jennifer tells the class that singing is her favorite activity. Instead of showing interest, Ryan and Seth turn her answer into another cruel joke. Her classmates are so focused on mocking her appearance that they fail to recognize her talents.

Abby’s faith has a lot to do with how she treats Jennifer. She grew up in a Christian home where her parents taught her to care about others. When she sees Jennifer being picked on, she doesn’t just feel sorry for her. She makes room for her at lunch and helps her feel welcome.

For anyone looking through Middle School Bullying Books, Jennifer’s experience will sound familiar. Kids can be quick to decide who belongs and who doesn’t. At Concord Middle, Jennifer barely gets through her first day before her classmates decide she’s someone they can laugh at. They haven’t even taken the time to get to know her.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Is this a suitable pick for Christian families?

Faith informs the characters’ choices, conversations, and hopes. Families seeking fiction that connects school relationships with Christian values will find plenty of natural starting points for conversation.

The novel raises questions about appearance, wealth, belonging, and courage without keeping adults outside the picture. Shared reading can open discussions students might otherwise find difficult to begin.

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